Unfortunately I agree on many points you sort out. Nowadays, Real Madrid is managed by capitalists with zero sense about football. Is all about money, money and money. Since many years Madrid hasn't at charge a person who understands football instead of be care of business. That's why I believe Mourinho will succeed at Bernabeu because he used to control all football area making the important decisions. More than a coach, Mourinho is also a manager and believe he will the Champions, La Liga and La Copa del Rey in 2 years (I don't thing he will take it this current season).
About the dimension of Real Madrid, I'm keep saying my friends, Real Madrid is THE top club in World. When you arrive at Madrid you know this is the biggest achievement in your career. I know Real Madrid isn't the best football team today, but it is the most important sporting institution in the world. His history, his structure, his culture make Real Madrid the most powerful club in the world.
One last note about Raul and Guti. Their loss represent also an identity loss for Real Madrid. A part of club's history has been lost in their departure.