This game is downright hilarious. It's the most over-the-top, end-to-end, arcade version of football I've ever played. It reminds me of those celebrity all-star matches in which no one really tries to defend.
It's as if EA said "fuck defending, defending is lame."
Thing is, 95% of this game is soooo good. Dribbling with just the stick is pure joy and attacking play in general is a blast. Collisions and animations are superb. I just played a night game in the rain and it looked brilliant.
It's just that 5% is bad, really bad, and it ruins the game. If you're interested in anything close to realistic football at least.
I'm seeing none of these problems you talk about. I don't play offline though. I have no interest at all in playing against a computer. Honestly do not see the point in it at all. Playing manual games is great though. Assisted games are cringe worthy. I played one yesterday and the guy one touched it at 786 mph. Absolute pathetic way to the play the game. Honestly, it was shocking. Manual online seasons is superb and defending is fine. Don't understand the whining about it if I'm being honest.