Murkurial, you are of course entitled to your doubts, but on what are you basing that, as you said, they are not taking steps to rectify that?
From all accounts I've heard that gameplay has been slowed down and they've actually made it a point to make sure speed doesn't conquer all, no?
Comments from the devs said that it was faster than 08 but slower than 09. How much is the question. As online is played at "normal" speed instead of "slow," it might not make much of a difference.
I've heard that they've worked hard on freekicks and set pieces.
Skip to about 20 seconds in...
YouTube - FIFA 10 Preview - Free-Kicks
Layoff shots....sweet.
I'm pretty sure I read somewhere they've worked on fatigue, and that they want to punish players who try to press the entire game. They've definitely said they are tuning high through balls to be less accurate. And we are yet to know whether tackling stats will be more important (definitely a problem I had with FIFA 09)
I'm not saying all of these things will end up the way we want them, but from what I've read most of what you posted above has been addressed. So all I'm trying to say is, don't jump to conclusions as far as gameplay is concerned just yet!