Oh yes, I understand and accept that some people don't like him or his attittude on the pitch. He's had some questionable episodes that I haven't liked at all. Though actually not that many, compared to other players!
I can recall similar things by Casillas and other keepers in Spain last season, but for some reason people don't like Valdes much and has marked him. No problem there. There's people who just don't seem likable for many.
But earlier I was refering to the incident with abidal. Why the hell he's not allowed to go to see his teammate and worry about it or moan to the referee? It's that what I didn't get. I mean, it seems that he is being accused of... being Valdes! Yes, he's guilty of that. But I can't see what he did wrong on that incident. Khedira could have injured very very badly Abidal. It's one of those tackles that you don't want to ever see in a pitch.
It's a matter of love-or-hate and even if he does something ordianry, people judge him harshly. Surely it has had an impact in his rating as a goalkeeper (the best of the world on 1vs1 by far).