EA themselves have said this isn't possible (unless you're using Share Play on PS5, or Parsec/similar on PC).
If you've managed it, it would be great to know how. Is it simply an option within Online Friendlies? Or do you think it's applying your gameplay settings when you host a match?
Any "sour grapes" posts are obvious because they're one or two toxic sentences that exist purely to developer-bash whilst making no constructive points about the game. As for "chasing clout" - on a largely PES-patch-based forum of football-game obsessives with a small amount of regulars in a dark corner of the internet, away from any possible form of viewership or sponsorship? Sure.
Some of us just live in hope, and when something called "Authentic Mode" is introduced, excuse us for wanting it to be authentic. (Plus, if
@Mathgamer's post about devs reading these forums are true, I'd hope there are enough people providing constructive criticism to perhaps inspire change. It's better to try than not try, if you've got the time to spare, right?)