That is a very moralistic point of view.
What i'm saying seems coming from and entirely humourless person who takes it all too serious...i don't think it's the case (but i'm obviously biased).
Sometimes there is a fine line between harmless banter, gloating and tribalism (and the last one i really detest, it leads to excesses).
Maybe i'm not cpable to be a real fan and that is why i sometimes don't understand the somtimes blind loyalty of fans for their clubs.
Something i can't graps is the rivals thing between clubs...
Because Spuirs and Arsenal are rivals, me (a Belgian) and a an Argentinian guy from the other side of the world are supposed to be opponents... (the Argentinian is a mere example, there is an Argentine Arsenal fan on this forum, it is not about him).
I happen to like both Arsenal and Spurs (but Spurs a litle bit more). Am i now a bad Spurs fan and (seen from the other side) do i have no right to like Arsenal ?
If Spurs win against Arsenal (it happens now and then) i'm glad, but to me it doesn't make any difference than a win against other teams...when i see footage of some Newcastle and Sunderland in their derby...jesus...those people are brainwashed idiots...
Hope you understand my point of view and that you see that it isn't an holier than thou attitude...the point is that i don't understand it...it just seems a waste of time and energy...