Yeah, great post AK! Cheers for that.
And wow, posting all that via mobile phone?? Wow! Good job!

Look, I think I was where you are right now (when I had more patience and trusted Wenger).
Don't get me wrong, I admire Wenger a lot. He is not the perfect manager (I'll touch on that later). But I do like him a lot. He is a man of principle trying to do things the right and sensible way, albeit working in an industry that has lost all traces of connection to the real world. What happens right now with the game is sickening indeed, to see cash ruling everything like that. Not to sound like a hypocrite, I'll go as far as saying Arsenal is a part of that too, and I was already disgusted with footballers' salaries in the region of £30-40k a week. But what we have nowadays in the Sugar Daddy FC era, where we see £150-200k a week, I don't even have words for that anymore. It's beyond indecent.
However, you have to face that. In the words of Henry, "football is football"

And it is what it is nowadays. If Wenger doesn't agree, he should pack his things and call it a day.
The fact Wenger is backstabbed by all the players you mentioned is not exactly bad luck. Wenger can't hope to be a father figure to those players and expect their loyalty. This is business after all, and it's nothing personal. The fact that Wenger never openly criticises these guys suggest that he knows it too. It's just business. The players will go to the highest bidders, and that's all there is to it.
When players say they wanted to move "to win things" I don't believe it for a minute, in most cases. If you were a professional footballer, would you turn down £150k a week?
It just so happens that the teams paying such salaries are the ones winning stuff. Coincidence?
If I may be so bold, let me put this another way: if Arsenal had been winning the Premier League every season whilst having a £60k a week average wage bill, our best players would still go to City, Chelsea and United anyway, to earn 2 or 3 times more than that.
Have you ever heard a player saying they are going to this or that team because "they are excited about their
project"? Yeah, project is the big word here. It sums up the following: those teams will pay absurd amounts to have the best players, and by having the best players they will win stuff.
I've heard this phrase before. It was coined by the first waves of mercenaries in football. I remember Robinho saying that when he moved to City. Back then City didn't win f*ck all, but Robinho was right about the project. The only thing is that he didn't stay to reap the rewards (through faults of his own).
I hear what you're saying about players as Gerrard, Totti and De Rossi. But these guys are a rarity today in football. We may be able to expect that from Jack Wilshere. But for the most part, we are a victim of our own ways. We recruit the best talent in Europe for the best price we can get. And then we get them very young from Feyenoord, Barcelona, from Africa, from Ligue 1, etc. But these guys don't have that same involvement with the club. They came to Arsenal to have their big break in football and to make money. They are looking after their careers and always will continue to do so.
Wenger, having the job that he has, must be perfectly aware of all this. If he doesn't, then he's too naive to work in this industry.
The bit about the players, such as Gervinho, it gets on my nuts but obviously Wenger knows them better than anyone else. Song couldn't put a foot right when he came to this club but Wenger turned him into a very good footballer. Maybe those players who underperform will come good. But the question is, can we afford to wait? Are we a football academy or a club? The way things are right now, Gervinho is costing us cup exits.
What's more, it's hard to imagine or understand how Wenger insists in people who
might come good, who have the potential... and completely give up on others who already are notoriously talented.
I'll agree that the financial constraints and the sugar daddy clubs have put a dent on Wenger's ambitions, but that's no excuse to the humiliation of late. When we suffer cup exits from Bradford and Blackburn it seems there's another deep underlying problem.
To me it seems Wenger is too soft, lenient and tolerant with most of his players' shortcomings. One would expect a proper bollocking of a half-time talk against Blackburn, but there was no signs of that.
We truly needed a missing quality on Wenger, which is put the fear of the Lord into these players. To me, they seem like a bunch of spoilt kids right now. A hair dryer treatment or what have you, wouldn't be a bad thing.
Rentboy how was Wenger being disrespectful to anybody putting out that team? I really find it hard sometimes with the things you come out with.
The team completely dominated that game and should have scored quite a few times, the reason they didn't was because of the players themselves.
Not only the team he picked, but the lacklustre, half-hearted performance. I think it's disrespectful for the fans who pay top pound for tickets (I don't need to keep banging on the same drums). It shows, too, a bit of carelessness and arrogance to underestimate our opposition like we did.
The players f*cked it up, I know Wenger can't go score those goals, but he was the one who bought the players, he selects his team and he is the one in charge of adjusting tactics during a match (or lack of adjustment, should I say).
If you're not convinced by my words, I'll resort to the words of the manager himself and the captain:
Arsene Wenger:
Maybe they still thought: ‘OK, we’re playing at home against Blackburn, it will be difficult but we will win the game anyway’, but it doesn’t work like that.
Thomas Vermaelen:
I think the tempo could have been higher sometimes. I think we had too many touches on the ball, didn’t respect the game sometimes.
Moreover, I don't really think we so clearly dominated that game as you suggest. It was illusory domination through possession, but quite frankly I thought Blackburn dealt with us quite comfortably most of the time.
The Gervinho miss was the only clear cut chance we created. There was that Rosicky rocket against the crossbar and Arteta hitting the side netting, but those were not chances we normally try to create. They came by and the players tried to seize it, because dammit, Wenger even gets angry when our players try a long range effort! Which is one of the things that annoy me a lot.
What Blackburn did against us? It was the most basic of things: put men behind the ball. And it worked!
We were not only lethargic and lumbering around without much end product, but we were predictable too.
During the 2nd half I spotted Giroud several times trying to get on the end of (poor) crosses whilst surrounded by 3 Blackburn centre halves! Why not stick another CF in there? It's a cup tie and we're on the verge of being knocked out! Oh, we don't have another natural CF? Use Podolski there, or Walcott. Anything, but try to dig out the goal we need! FFS, instead we see the team stuck in that static formation trying the same thing we always do.
We've been here before, it's all very familiar. Wenger seems incapable of changing the shape and formation of his team. It's always like for like substitutions and it got really old. Teams know exactly what to do to deal with us. Having the wingers cross to a lone centre forward all game long when he (Giroud) is outnumbered is very poor showing.
When we played Sunderland we were so much more direct and urgent. That was what I missed about Arsenal, but I guess that was a one-off. We are back to our old selves, overworking innocuous possession and incapable of breaking down a team who is doing only the simplest of things (parking the bus and hoofing it up).
When I say Arsene Wenger's time should be up, I say it not only for the sake of change, but I think he is an outdated manager. I think a more modern and audacious manager would have approached that game against Blackburn in a much more different way. And at least react properly to a situation that wasn't working for us halfway through.
Of course there are the issues off the pitch, inside the books with players' wage structure and all that, still to fix. But if it isn't Wenger to sort it our, someone else will. It doesn't have to be him. In fact, if he stays we have no indication of a change whatsoever.
Things cannot go on like this for any longer.