I have something that graduates don't have.....experience. Thats is worth much more in the job market IMO.
Good point, that's what I think about the job market, too.
I must say I've been both lucky and unlucky in my life.
I've got a job that I adore, I work as a PC techie for a very small company in a town not far from Milan: this work allows me to travel a little and to build up some experience in not very long time. If everything goes right I'll be graduated within the end of the year (not counting on it that much to be honest, most probably I'll have to wait 2009 to graduate) and this could be a good boost to my work. I've got some friends I love and I'm in good health, I have my own car and I have put aside a small amount of money "just in case".
On the other hand the last girlfriend I had was a disaster, we never cared enough each other so it ended ub being a pain rather than something to trust in. It lasted quite long but it wasn't the way it was meant to be. I just feel over-protected by my family sometimes and that prevents me to fully express myself, and this is just no good
So, my main goals are:
- Graduate as soon as possible
- Keep healthy
- Put a remedy to some errors I made in the past, or at least have a chance to explain why I did them
- Get some time for myself (for example to listen to some music or to read or just to relax a little bit, with both uni and work it's kind of an utopia)
- Go on with the current work and become a network administrator (I know it may take a little long but I feel I work with the right people: supporting me when I need it and pushing me when they know I can do something by myself)
- Find a girlfriend that actually cares, and who I care about at least as much. I don't want another girlfriend "just for fun", time to get more serious
- This will lead to buy a house someday I hope, and watch children grow happy (you're right, family will be the most regarding thing in all life)
Then I think I can die in peace, possibly when I'm asleep
To be honest there are some other goals that would make my life "perfect", but they're not essential:
- Play at least once in San Siro (hard to make true)
- Ride (or drive) at least once in santa Monica (I've been racing there but only karts unfortunately, time to get a motorbike or a sports car and access the "main" course)
- See Ligabue live once again
- See Inter relegated the same year that Milan wins the Serie A
- Win a 5-a-side football tournament again (never won one since I got back from the hand injury)