Re: The Italy Thread - Forza Azzurri! - "Il sogno è appena cominciato"
Great post Ben.
I can see your point about Suarez from an Italian point of view.
But there is another angle to this. Stars like Suarez are supposedly to be role models ( i know they don't want to be, but they are). I can see kids on play grounds over the world biting each other. I know most kids have more sense than that, but still.
i gotta disagree with u on that gerd.
football players are
supposed to be role models? since when? i know they sometimes "happen to become" role models... for those kids whose parents are too lazy to actually spend time with em and educate em... but to say they're "suppposed" to be role models, that's a stretch.
football players are not supposed to be role models... most football players (stars included) are uneducated ignorants, who can't even string two sentences together and whose only talent is to play a game. we're talking about people with no real interests, no ambitions in their lives, apart from those related to the game they play.... and u think theese are supposed to be role models?
of course there are a few exceptions, but even them (the good ones, the "smart" ones) are hardly a models to aspire to. take the smartests, classiests football players around; del piero, rui costa, maldini, zanetti, seedorf.... we're amazed at the fact they're not as dumb as their colleagues, that they got some class and that they got other interests apart from football in their lives.... which is great. but compare them to me or u or stefano or any other guy who had a half decent education, and they're 1 step above an illiterate.
we're talking about ignorant halfwits, who reach the peak of their entire life when they're 25 and whose life becomes socially irrelevant once they retire at 35, 37, 38 years old.
if we were to picture our society as a ladder they would occupy one of the last rungs. why on earth should theese people be role models?
perhaps is it because they play football and kids love football, so they might tend to idolize theese guys? bullshit.
i was a kid and i loved football. and yet i never picked a football player as a role model. fuck, i never had any role model at all (what a stupid concept is that anyway!).
my favourite player was maradona. i loved the way he played and i badly wanted to have his talent..... but i never wanted
to be maradona. i never wanted to become like maradona. i never wanted to emulate him in everything he did, because as any 8 years old kid, i could see he was a stupid, classless person. i just wanted to have his talent in playing football, that's all.
kids are perfectly capable to tell right from wrong. when u see a kid biting his teammate, u shouldn't blame suarez. u should blame that little, classless, disrespecful shit! and u should discipline that kid.
but of course parents don't do that... because it's difficult.... because it takes time and energy and patience and commitment to properly raise a kid, to teach him some values, to punish him when he does something wrong and to follow through.
... and so we get to the point where people blame the so called "wrong models"... as if a football player or a movie star or the television should be responsible for the education of their own child.
suarez is just a deranged animal who can control his instincts (and who needs professional help). but a parent, whose son bites his mates, in an attempt to emulate suarez, and who blames it on the "role models" instead of disciplining his own son.....well that parent is a much bigger threat to society than suarez himself.... and he should be sterilized immediately so that he won't raise and "educate" any more children.
sorry for the little off topic rant, but i just find this "role model" thing extremely stupid. to me, that's just an abdication of parental responsibilities, and i find it much more worrying than watching an idiot with the iq of jellyfish biting chiellini.
but of course keep in mind i don't have the same experience u have with kids, so i might also be talking complete nonsense here.
