Vanzandt, i probably agree with you on the humour thing...it can be cultural...i admire professional English humour, but i admit that a lot of aggro between English and foreign posters is due to humour and the different perception.
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I guess that would make sense.
When you lectured me on my stereotyping, i think you misunderstood or (more likely) did not explain myself very good (keep in mind that i'm not a native English speaker).
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I understand, I guess the interpretation is a lot more difficult for the reason you mention.
I don't agree with the stereotyping of English people as having trouble with their own sexuality (and i'm not only referring to homosexuality), but the image and stereotype is definately very much present over here.
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I don’t dispute that the stereotype maybe in existence but it is like all stereotypes a truly false impression of the majority of people that it seeks to pigeon-hole.
I have to say that a certain kind of tourist does not help to change the image...i'm talking about exclusively male groups of people who embark here wearing football shirts (very common in England, not done in Europe) and who are only interested in binge drinking. When they are drunk they finally have the guts to "speak" about thing related to sexuality and of course it's all wrong...usually they end up in jail if only for a night...
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I think that is stereotyping a stereotype in all honesty, unless something is mistaken. I mean first of all you have to understand that football shirt wearing holiday makers are a fraction of English people and not remotely representative of the public in England as a whole. Secondly many of those on holiday who wear football shirts do not do anything wrong at all or any of the things you mention, and the mere fact that it is culturally different for them to wear football shirts does not make them all louts. If you think it does then that is again a stereotype.
From those that do wear football shirts, there is a minority of who will binge drink. That in itself again is not a social problem as long as they cause no harm. So you have an even smaller minority who go on holiday, wear football shirts, binge drink and then cause harm and end up in cells, sort of like a minority of a minority of a minority. Of cause such people probably cause an awful lot of damage of trouble and even as a minority; on the basis of large numbers of holiday makers they will represent a problem….
But to think that those in the cells or those you have mentioned are representative of English people is simply not true and to even think that most English holiday makers are like that is not tru and to think that most football shirt wearing holiday makers are like that is also not true.
Of course these people are an absolute minority but they determine the image of a country...just like most English people talk about "boring Belgium" which infuriates us...
One of the intresting, but sometimes frustrating things on this forum is precisely this cultural gap...
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That is the point….that such people are a tiny minority and such stereotypical myths and pigeon-holing needs to be exposed for the rubbish that it is. I understand that there are these stereotypes, that can if you allow them determine the image of a country….the key is to not allow that to happen, to not allow them and not trade in them.
Which is why I have a friend from Munich who I do not think is going to steal sun loungers. When I first met him I didn’t assume that he had no sense of humour (very funny bloke) and think he would be very efficient. Likewise I do not assume that people from Belgium are boring or that Belgium is boring, I don’t think that is credible. Neither do I think that the Dutch are all liberal minded or that the Irish or Scots are all heavy drinkers, or that the Italians are all romantic etc…..it’s all just rubbish.
Even if one could argue a grain of truth in a stereotype at their conception, they are all so woefully out of date with generations past that any small truth no longer exists.
Even reputations of cities are often at total odds with the truth due to the change of time.
Sorry for waffling…
I'll try and think about the language thing a bit more...I do sometimes and other times forget..